Finding a guy that was meant for you is one of the difficult things that any girl could try to accomplish.

When even a proclaimed faithful like David Beckham can bend easily to a Rebecca or a Sarah and who knows how many more, then what would the lesser mortals belonging to generation-X do?

Do guys come with ISI marks? Is there any Einstein or Freud working on gadgets to measure the sincerity of guys in a relationship?

Certainly this job of knowing whether the guy who touches the heart is worth living with for a lifetime is becoming difficult.

To make the job easier, here are just 5 secrets about guys that every girl should know. Read them, apply them to your daily search, and choose wisely

1. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention:

So don’t get carried away. They like watching girls because it is their biggest pastime. They admire girls even if they’re not that much pretty.

And the next step in line is to get the girl respond to them. It is just the feel-good factor to ensure that they are attractive enough for the girls. So don’t slip away from your ground at the mere gimmicks shown only to attract you.

2. If a guy praises you to your face, don’t take it in face value:

Guys are generally fun-loving and are pleased to see how they can make you believe their words. So don’t believe them if they say they can’t sleep without hearing your voice on the phone or can’t live without seeing you, etc.

A guy interested in a serious relationship would use these dialogues selectively only at times when he thinks he really needs to tell you and that you would believe him in return.

Such a guy when he says like that, would have really meant that. But that takes some time into a serious relationship.

3. For guys, chemistry is not necessarily connected to beauty:

Yes, it is something else. In fact, the way the girl presents herself attracts the guy to enter into a serious relationship than her efforts at the beauty parlour.

The girl’s smile is the first missile that blows him off. And then it is about how she conducts herself in groups and in person. Generally, guys like to flirt but they don’t like flirts.

4. If a guy tells you he’s in love with you, he really means it:

Because no guy says “I love you” so easily to a girl. But when he says he means it. He may be flirting around with so many, but would have special feelings for a special girl who he cannot forget.

And if you happen to be that special friend, who doesn’t want to respond to him, then don’t expect him to give up. His entire life goal from then on will be to make you accept him.

He will give up only when he comes to know that some other guy has succeeded in his application to you.

5. Rejection is the biggest nightmare for guys:

They don’t accept defeat so easily, particularly if they have had a relationship with a girl for quite some time. They will keep trying to get your approval, despite the “no” you have said.

If they hear you say “no,” they would actually hear it “not now.” So they will keep trying. See what happens with Beckham.

He may have dated different girls at different times, but would be quick enough to seek pardon from his wife. If Victoria turns “spicy” enough to reject him, he is sure to break. Rejection by the girl is something the guys cannot bear.

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